Monday, 13 July 2015

How to Ace your College Interview!

Interviews can be the most intimidating meetings for most of us. As it is the interview season, I have jotted down some tips and guidelines to get you through that unhurt. Start reading, here and now!

1) Prerequisites :

 First things first. Prepare yourself. There are certain efforts you need to make ‘before’ the actual interview date to get ready for your big day.

- Do a little research about the respective college. For example, what do they specifically look for in a student etc. This would make an impression on the interviewer that you are not ignorant, and that you are accustomed to researching.

- Practice preparing the answers for the most common interview questions, for the sake of familiarity and confidence, and don't just leave this to be dealt with on the spur of the moment.
Make out a list of questions you need to ask them,moment. You can enquire about anything you are unsure about, or need to know more about. Just make sure you ask it the correct and professional way, as to make a good impression. This is why, I emphasize on preparing the questions before.

2) Appearance:

It is wrongly believed by some, that an interview is merely a question and answer session and they rate you according to that only. Mind you, for that, you have admission applications, the personal and academic questions regarding you in it, admission essays etc. An interview is meant to judge you on what you really are, apart from the information you submitted. They observe your dressing sense, your demeanour, your gestures, confidence level, your manners and etiquettes.

- Take an interview as a professional meeting and get dressed in a formal attire: that is neither too revealing, nor too casual.

- Accessories. 

A lot of people get confused about whether they should be wearing accessories or not. So on that note, don't wear anything that looks attention-seeking and don't make yourself look stuffy. For instance, women should avoid dangling earrings. Accessories are not to be looked at as inappropriate for formal meetings, like this one, choose something sober though, that blends in with your attire. For men, a watch and maybe cuff links are enough.

- Wear natural make up and don't overdo it. Same goes for the cologne, be conservative regarding it.

- Finally, when you enter the interviewer's room, don't avoid making eye contact with them. Make a direct eye-contact, wear a warm smile and greet them first.

And here you go! You are done with the second step.

3) During the Interview: Ace it!

 This is the most important step for an interview. You must display the real you before the interviewer, don't play artificial because they get it all and this does not appeal much to them. However, make sure you let out the most mature, well mannered and professional side of you. Further, go through the keys:

- Don't be late. No matter how genuine reason provide, you would always be a chance of you making less of an impression.

- Be confident. They get most impressed by you when you are confident enough and trust yourself. Even if they ask you something you don't answer exactly correct, don't punish yourself for it for the rest of the meeting. Avoid being over-confident, such people seem like the most shallow and rarely seem to impress instantly.

- Act mature and modest. Smile from time to time, try not to laugh, at least not hysterically. Don't over-praise yourself, do not babble, if you are worth it, they will certainly see it for themselves. Prefer using more phrases like, 'Yes, precisely', 'I agree with you', 'I appreciate your opinions.' This would make them respect you.

- Be honest. Never say anything about yourself, which is either partially or completely not true. Because you might think otherwise, but the college staff really does research on the students' backgrounds. Tell them truthfully the jobs you are good at, your pastimes, your weaknesses. Tell them, if enquired, the other colleges you have applied to. This will lead them to value your words.

- Try to listen more and speak less, don’t babble. For example, the questions that are asked, listen to them carefully, ponder over the gist of what is really being asked, and then answer. Don't cut out the interviewer by interrupting him.

- Most of the times, they call your parents along with you, and tell them to wait outside for a couple of minutes and then call them in. To display the best of your manners, stand up when your parents enter the room and remain standing until they get seated.

- Don't forget to be thankful to the staff for taking out time to meet you, and also thank them verbally once you are done with the interview and are about to leave.

Interviews can be intimidating, but to prevent them from becoming your worst nightmares, you have to do actually very little. 

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Sunday, 5 July 2015

Becoming the Best of Yourselves

The choice is simple. You can either embrace your true self or be a second-rate version of somebody else –Pretty Good stories blog, Markus Almond.

Hello friends!Being yourself and letting go of the bogus priorities, that we hold on to unnecessarily, is the key to the peace of mind which we often yearn for, and blame others for its absence. For this week’s post, I have gathered a couple of quotations as a push towards not only being yourself, but the best version of yourself. So, here goes!

1) The greatest challenge in life is discovering who you are. The second greatest is being happy with what you find -Anonymous

2) If no one responds to your call, be not afraid to walk alone – Anonymous

3) It's better to deserve honours and not have them than to have but not deserve them - Mark Twain

4) If you go through hardships and decide not to surrender, that is strength.

5) Holding a grudge against someone is letting someone live rent free in your head -Anonymous

6) Forgive others, not because they deserve forgiveness, but because you deserve peace -Jonathan Lockwood Huie

7) Peace is not the absence of violence but the presence of justice – Martin Lurther King

8) The only way to doing great work is to do what you love -Steve Jobs

9) Look at how a single candlelight can both defy and define the darkness –Anne Frank

10) "I can’t imagine if anyone can say ‘I’m weak’ and then remain so. After all, if you know it, why not fight against it? Why not try to train your character? The answer was ‘Because, it is so much easier not to!’ –Anne Frank

And, another quote by Anne Frank! I personally find her words most relatable.

11) People can keep telling you to keep your mouth shut, but it does not stop you from having your own opinion –Anne Frank

12) The privilege of a lifetime is being who you are -Joseph Campbell


13) The good news is that you don't know how great you can be. How much you can love. What you can accomplish. And what your potential is -Anne Frank

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